I do not have my heart set on doing this yearly round-up. I wasn't as eager to set goals for this coming year. There are still a number of goals that need to be attained. Why is that? Are my goals too unattainable? Did I become complacent?
I guess, it is a mix of both.
So, for this coming new year, I am going to be more intentional about my goals. It is time to plot those small steps that will help me reach those milestones. I will make it measurable and simple.
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Looking back at the previous twelve months, they weren't a complete waste. Yes, it was difficult. It was an eyeopener too. For most of the year, I've encountered a series of disappointments. But then, I found out who are loyal, sincere and generous. I found persons who I can lean on and who I can draw strength from. Time exposed people with ulterior motives. I was able to distance myself from people who have been draining my positive energy. Being an optimist in a sea of pessimists is a feat in itself. Nakakapagod maging resilient.
I have been repeating these mantras to myself when I am on the brink of a breakdown. They may be able to help you too.
"Keep calm and carry on.""Out of sight, out of mind.""Give chance to others. Your time will come."
December started with a lot of highs. It was busy but fun. There were weekly singing engagements. I met up with a number of balikbayan friends. December gave me something to look forward to. It gave us a boost in the monotony we've been experiencing. December kept me too busy to worry about anything else. December gave me hope and a change in my perspective. It was a time of answered prayers, too.
Surviving 2022 is like making it to the finish line. With that, I should give myself a pat on the back.
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