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Capizfornia is our code name for our 2018 vacation.  My husband and I coined this term because we decided to keep the details of our vacation a secret. In the beginning of the year, my kids have been pestering me to go to the US.  Because it wasn't planned, my husband and I would give vague answers.  March came and plans for our trip firmed up.  In the days leading to our departure, we'd forget about our big secret and cover it up with our plans for visiting Capiz instead.  Capiz is where our fish pond is located.  The kids dreaded the trip to Capiz knowing how bored they'd be.  We told them that there'll be endless days at the beach and lots of time fishing at the pond.  We even conspired with the grandparents and other relatives to NOT divulge the big secret. Only my eldest caught on. He wasn't sure but he kept quiet. Javi hinted that Capiz was just a code name, but couldn't figure it out. The rest would question why we had to bring a car seat, a strol

With numerous resources out there, I do not really know if I am doing the right thing.  There are methodologies that I can not fully grasp, let alone apply in real life.  Am I being to hard on my children?  Am I neglecting their needs?  Am I being too strict?  I apply what is tried and tested.  I use the method that was applied to me.  I try to raise my children exposed to the reality that is out there.  I do not pamper them nor do I protect them from what is necessary.  They are exposed to hard work and chores.  They have their own anxieties. I do not have a career to speak off.  My children are my laurels.  To be told that they are nice and capable individuals is like receiving an Academy Award for parenting.  Di ako nagtataas ng bangko.  I am just grateful that the hard work is starting to pay off.  But, we still have a long way to go.  The hard work continues.

It has been a few days since my family got back from our vacation.  We are slowly and reluctantly going back to our routine.  I've barely adjusted to the time and I am itching to leave again. Does that happen to you too or is it just me?  This traveling thing is addicting. We get to experience life without responsibilities, work, bills, and just live the good part.  Who doesn't want endless sight-seeing, shopping, feasting and living la dolce vita ? But we can not escape reality.  For now, work is a necessity... necessity to fund my next leisure activity.  So, until the next trip.  Adios!