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Crossing My Fingers

2012-02-10T18:51:00.000+08:00

I've recently decided to turn a skill into an income-generating activity. I have talked to one prospective client and it was a very pleasant meeting. He gave positive feedback and was very encouraging. I am just waiting for the GO signal.

God willing, Cathy's Kitchen will be in full swing by next month. Aaarrrggghhh! Wish me luck!

The Shoe Gal in Me

2012-02-02T08:41:00.004+08:00

Since last quarter of 2011, I've been pining for this pair. I only acquired this a few weeks ago, from my hard-earned baking money.

Somewhere between saving up and acceptance (of not getting it), I realized that I was compensating for the "loss" with several other pairs of shoes.

Oxfords from H&M

Jelly shoes from Melissa

My replacement Fitflops

Sparkly shoes from Payless

What's the lesson in this? I could've just bought that first pair with all the money I spent on the others.

But, where's the fun in that? I'm close to broke but I'll live.

Happy New Year From Sofitel

2012-01-19T18:25:00.002+08:00

I am not Chinese so I have no business celebrating the new year. However, with offerings such as these, who could resist celebrating with our Chinese brothers and sisters?

C'est magnifique!

7th Anniversary

2012-01-17T08:52:00.002+08:00

For this anniversary, we initially wanted to go on a trip to celebrate. But because we had so many things planned for the weekend and because travel arrangements didn't fall through, we decided to to stay in Manila instead. On our anniversary, we landed in Lemuria.

It was tucked inside a residential area in Horseshoe. Down the sloping drive way, this was the sight that greeted us

We had the usual bread, butter and vinaigrette to start the meal.

Vic had the Onion Soup while I had one of the most wonderful salads I've had in ages. Look up La Tomate et Citron in the menu. With candied walnuts and dried figs, how can I not like it? The white strips are grilled ricotta cheese strips. Yes, it was definitely yummy.

Vic ordered the rib eye (served with peppercorn sauce and a side of veggies)

while I had the Kurobuta pork belly as shown below. Again, it had my favorite dried figs. Though the picture doesn't show much, this portion is filling enough. Honestly, I couldn't taste the difference between the Kurobuta pork and the ordinary one I get from the grocery. All I know was, I needed more meat than fat. It is best eaten when you have the pork and fruit in one bite.

Dessert was the Olive Oil and Chocolate Marquis, a frozen concoction served with caramelized mangoes and spun sugar. I was a bit disappointed. I was expecting the Olive Oil drizzled on top of chocolate ice cream. But I don't think I look disappointed in this photo.

The place was so quaint and intimate. It looks like it can fit only around 15 couples.

We didn't know what to expect, so I called earlier to make reservations. It wasn't so busy when we got there so we had very attentive waiters to our beck and call.

I highly recommend this restaurant for special dinners. Click on the link to know more about Lemuria.

Numbers

2012-01-12T12:21:00.004+08:00

When I picked Johann up from school, I had a chance to talk to his teacher. She mentioned that she is quite happy with his performance, specially in helping his classmates tell the time. He is also quite a leader, according to the teacher.

Johann is now in Junior Kinder. By now, he has mastered numbers (1 to 10, at least) and has been using them ever since. I never realized the practicality of knowing numbers until Johann recognized them. Here are some of its practical uses:

switching the fan or A/C to its correct setting
changing TV channels
telling time
dividing or portioning food
knowing the value of money
determining which items are inexpensive or not

Slowly, I understand the value of putting our child in preschool. I'm amazed at me how we've taken these simple things for granted and how we've forgotten the value of the basics we learn preschool.

Great Finds for the New Year

2012-01-06T12:53:00.002+08:00

I'm always excited to try out new products. I've tried these new products and found them to be very satisfactory. I hope you get to try these out too.

1. Soap and Glory's Clarity - I was about to become Rudolf, the reindeer, before I found this. It stopped my zit from becoming a full-blown center-of-attraction. It has a very refreshing smell that is very much needed after a sweating it out the whole day. Available at Sephora stores.

2. Mocha Rose by Rosebud Perfume Co - If you like the Rosebud Salve balms that come in small tin pods, you will love this product. It comes in an easy-open tube for convenience and effortless application. The application tip has a velvety texture unlike most balms in a tube. More importantly, the balm is so effective, it took out the dryness on my lips in a couple of applications. Also available at Sephora stores.

3. Ferrero's Kusschen - From the makers of Nutella and Ferrero Rocher comes a new decadent candy. Imagine the Ferrero Rocher without the nutty, crusty layer. Yum! You may get this in Duty Free Shops. A small package costs no more than $6.

Till the next Great Finds update!

Travelling with My Kids

2012-01-05T16:56:00.003+08:00

I thought that by now, Vic and I are experts on travelling with kids. In the past five years, we've taken five or six vacations with them. One of which is a long haul trip. No major incidents took place in the past, so I guess we did things the way it should be done.

I knew what to expect. I was set on not being able to do all things I want to do. We made sure not to pack all days with strenuous activities. I have made a mental note of where to take the kids so they'd be entertained. We also have allowances for resting. I was even prepared for tantrums.

On our recent trip to Singapore during the New Year Weekend, I was quite confident that we could pull it off. Together with my husband's side of the family, we took the afternoon flight to Singapore last Thursday. Vic and I reserved a row of Choice Seats so we will be comfortable with the kids. We brought Johann (4 y/o), Javi (3 y/o), Bettina (1 y/o) and yaya. In our carry-on, we have toys, several forms of entertainment, food, wipes, extra clothes. We mad sure that convenience is within reach.

The first few days were a breeze. Everyone was still excited about the new environment. On the third day, the kids were starting to feel that they are away from home. The younger two children were extra clingy. Javi was content on having cereals, bread, iced chocolate drinks, an occasional piece of meat. Bettina didn't want to be carried by her yaya. Johann didn't want to nap in the afternoon. In short, they were getting cranky. On the fourth and final day, Johann and Javi wanted to go home and couldn't wait to ride the plane. Ipads and toys were not much help.

As we were waiting to board our delayed return flight (at nearly 11PM), almost all three kids were crying at the same time because of lack of sleep and comfort. After consoling one child, another bout of tantrum begins. Just imagine the looks I'm getting from the "perfect" parents of well-behaved children. I'm sure they couldn't wait to give me a piece of advise.

By this time, my thoughts were on checking myself in a hotel room and locking myself in there for a whole day. I wanted some time for myself to recuperate from the stress and demands of parenting.

The children began to settle down as soon as we boarded the plane. It was peace and quiet until Bettina woke up.

At the end of all this hoopla, I realize that when you travel with kids, nothing is certain. I doubt if we'll ever be experts.

Wussup 2012?

2012-01-03T14:02:00.002+08:00

The mad holiday rush is over. My husband has gone back to the office. Johann and Javi will start school tomorrow. We are all slowly going back to our routines.

Since 2012 is the THE dreaded year in Mayan calendar, I don't really know what to expect this year. Being a full-time mother, I am pretty much at my family's disposal. But here are some major events and milestones I'm looking forward to:

Our 7th wedding anniversary next, next weekend
An upcoming trip in February, which will serve as a belated anniversary trip for Vic and me
Apart from the usual family birthdays, my father's 60th birthday party
Planning the ACS Hokkaido trip on Jan 2013

To liven up my pretty boring life, I'm targeting a couple of weekend bazaars for Cathy's Kitchen to participate in. I'm hoping to squeeze in a few more baking courses since the last one I had was years ago.

What about you? What will you year be like?

Dig Up A Hole

2011-12-28T08:13:00.001+08:00

... and hide. That's what I want to do, right now.

I committed a major booboo. I accidentally handed my husband's travel bag as a gift to my Tita. It was packaged the same way. So when I grabbed it from under the tree, I thought it was the right gift bag.

No wonder, I still have the gift I intended to give my Tita. I kept on wondering what I gave her since she thanked me for such a nice gift. When I figured it out, I called up my cousin about it. Today, I will replace it with another bag. I would have let it go, if the bag weren't so special. Mapapamahal pa ko, because of my boo-boo.

On hindisight, di ba siya nagtaka na may price pa and it was just in the store's paper bag? Still, it was my fault, my booboo.

If you were in my place, what would you do?

Kumusta Naman?

2011-12-21T20:52:00.000+08:00

In last four hours, I got 17 cake orders for Friday. Six are for Vic's colleagues, 10 for Father dear and one for my cousin. Then I'd have to add another one to raffle off at my choir's Christmas party and several more for my neighbors.

Looks like I'll be baking the whole day tomorrow. Thank God I'm finished with my Christmas shopping.

Christmas Is

2011-12-19T16:46:00.000+08:00

... just around the corner. I'm ashamed to admit that with too many obligations, I have not allowed myself to feel the true meaning of Christmas.

Sadly, Christmas has always been an excuse to indulge and to excessively accumulate stuff. It has always been the busy season of the year when traffic has reached gridlock status, when there are cakes to bake, music to learn, and numerous obligations to fulfill. With all these, I tell you, Christmas is not easy to find. There are just too many distractions.

So, to catch up on what needs to be done before Christmas, MORTIFICATION will be my theme for this final week of Advent. Maybe, by focusing on other people's good traits, curbing my tongue, and by practicing patience, tolerance and selflessness, the TRUE Christmas spirit will spring back into my life.

Hopefully, with a renewed heart, I can easily welcome the true meaning of Christmas.

Third Time's The/A Charm

2011-12-12T21:55:00.000+08:00

Have you heard of that superstition? They say that after two failed attempts, the third will most likely succeed.

That's exactly what happened to our yaya's 3rd attempt to get a passport. After so much hassle, she finally came back with some good news. I am hoping that there wont be any other delays so she can get it in time for our departure.

Now that she can tag along, we can bring Bettina with us. We will be complete this coming New Year!

It will be different this time. For the past 4 years, we've celebrated New Year's Eve cooped up in our hotel room. It looks like Vic and I can slip out on New Year's Eve, while the kids are asleep.

I can hardly wait to plan our stay.

But wait, I still have to search for Bettina's passport's delivery receipt first. I hope I find it. Otherwise, I'd have another problem.

In the meantime, I am Cathy's Kitchen's slave.

Sweet Delights

2011-12-09T16:55:00.001+08:00

This the reason I've been busy the past few weeks.

for smaller cakes and bars

for regular-sized cakes and tortes

These new boxes are eco-friendly, manufactured and printed by Scala and Anonas Press. The designs were done in collaboration with my trusted artist and cousin-in-law, Kuya Boyette.

Cathy's Kitchen is now accepting orders for the holidays. Email SweetDelightsbyCathy@yahoo.com for orders or inquiries.

Talgang Pahirapan Ba?

2011-12-08T08:34:00.001+08:00

In the past few weeks, I've been gathering requirements for our yaya's passport application. For our year-end trip, we are planning to bring all three kids and one help since we can not manage all three.

For our first appearance, I've asked her to get her birth certificate from NSO, a baranggay ID, her Fetcher's ID and the ID from our subdivision. Since she doesn't have any other government issued IDs, I was hoping that those were enough to prove her identity. So when we went to DFA to get her passport and Bettina's, I wasn't surprised that she was asked to present more documents. We finished Bettina's application within two hours, thanks to the courtesy lane. Yaya, on the other hand, was instructed to get her documents from her hometown.

The following day, her mother managed to get a transcribed copy of her birth certificate from the local Civil Registrar, unearth past school IDs and diploma and was able to secure a copy of her Form 137. By Monday, we already have the documents with us. Our only prayer was to get the NBI clearance right away.

While that is being processed, I filed for another DFA appointment which was set today. We've decided to go through with the application even if the NBI clearance isn't ready. By 830AM, I was informed that the DFA is asking for another requirement. Ggggrrrrr!!!! She was asked to go to Intramuros to get a Voter's Registration Certificate.

I really don't get it. What proof would it give? I understand the NBI clearance requirement, which they didn't ask for in the 2nd appointment.

I am beginning to sense that those people are really making it difficult for no reason at all. Power tripping ba? Ayaw ba nila ng passport application fee? Ayaw ba nilang lumago ang travel industry?

It seems that we've been encountering resistance every step of the way. I haven't even told the story of how the Baranggay ID went around the city before she got hold of it. Hay, Murphy, layuan mo ako!

Though it is starting to get on my nerves, I really leave it up to Him. But, may I just say that I really hate dealing with government agencies?

Sana Ngayong Pasko

2011-11-20T23:07:00.001+08:00

Won't it be lovely to get one of these for Christmas?

a Marcie

a Paraty

a reversible tote

or a PS1

But I still have my sight set on this one. Hehehe, ang babaw ko.

Holiday Gift Ideas

2011-11-16T18:56:00.001+08:00

I got a new cookbook today and I am so excited to try it out. It's almost as exciting as getting a new bag or traveling to a foreign land. Just Kidding.

It is from one of my favorite local chefs. Like her previous book, it is not all about cakes and baking. There are recipes for sauces, spreads, desserts and snacks. Just look at the cover, it is very festive.

Here's a preview of what I want to try out:

Flavored salts

Mediterranean dips

Home-made Caramel Sauce

Smoked Salmon spread

White Toblerone Cheesecake

If you are a "kitchen goddess" like me (ahem, ahem :P), I suggest you get a copy. It has unique ideas about what to share with friends this holiday season. It's worth every cent.

Happy 3rd, Javi!

2011-11-10T23:43:00.001+08:00

We celebrated Javi's birthday a couple of days ago. But unlike his other birthdays, this one seemed more special. He now understands that birthdays are quite different from all other days because gifts are given, cake candles are blown, and special meals are shared.

Very early that morning, I took him gift-shopping. We were at Toys R Us as soon as the mall opened. It was Jollibee spaghetti, his favorite, for lunch. Then pancakes, his 2nd favorite, for dinner. When I asked him if he liked his pancake, he said, "I loved it, Ma" spoken like a true cartoon-junkie.

After dinner, on our way back to the car, he kept saying, "Ma, birthday ko." As if the idea is still sinking in.

When we arrived home, I had a chocolate cake waiting for all us. Yep, that's another favorite. We patiently waited for him to blow the candles until Kuya decided to help out Javi. We had the customary family shot. Unfortunately, at this stage, we can never get a decent one. Somebody is always goofing around.

Before the day ended, I asked him if he was happy. Unabashedly, he said yes. That's more than enough for me. I accomplished my mission for the day.

Good Morning!

2011-10-27T10:03:00.001+08:00

Because Rachel Ray (sp?) inspired me to do so, I made a frittata for breakfast.

Here's a quick rundown of what I did.

1. Slice ham, onions, yellow peppers (capsicum) into strips. Slice mushrooms thinly.
2. Saute everything in a sauce pan starting with the onions, followed by the ham and peppers. Add mushrooms when everything is nearly cooked. Turn off the fire and let the residual heat cook the mushrooms.
3. In a separate bowl, beat 5 medium eggs and a quarter cup of milk. Season with salt, pepper and add a dash of hot sauce.
4. Throw in all ingredients into an oven-proof dish. Baked at 400 degrees for 15mins or until set.

This is best eaten with buttered toast and jam.

What a hearty breakfast for a long day.

Note: you may want to grease the oven-proof dish if you don't like it to form a crust around the edges.

Treats

2011-10-25T19:29:00.001+08:00

As soon as we got back from Vic's office's annual Trick or Treat, Johann dumped all their goodies on the bed. Both big and small Kuyas were excited to sort through their loot. They got their usual favorites, jelly ace and a few Hershey's kisses. They recently discovered Flat Tops and Curly Tops, so Javi horded them too. This is the start of their love affair with candy.

Before going to the office, we had to bribe them with candy just to get them dressed up. "I don't like candy!" That's what they said. Ha!

So now, they know what Trick or Treat is about. I had to play cop and ration their treats to 3 pieces each. Otherwise, we'd be battling tonsilitis tomorrow.

For sure, we won't have problems making them dress up next time.

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Speaking of treats, the kids weren't the only ones who came home with them. While the boys were with Daddy, I went to BHS with Bettina. I came home with these...

Who could resist? It was 40% off for two pairs. It was short of B1T1. I know I don't really need it. But if I wait for my Crocs to disintegrate, I may never have to buy another pair of flipflops in this lifetime. I've been waiting for 5 years.

Well, I'm still not sure if I am keeping both. I might give one as a Christmas gift.

Worst Airport in the World

2011-10-20T09:58:00.000+08:00

I'm sure you've seen the article. If not, I'm sure you've heard about it in the news. We, the Philippines, have the worst airport in the world. What people fail to mention was it was based on one criteria: the availability of facilities for sleeping in airports. Talk about sensationalizing an issue.

I admit that our airport is in bad shape. It needs repairs and updating. Chuvaness has detailed it in her blog so many times.

One media personality pointed out that since it is the first thing that greets tourists, it has to be aesthetically pleasing. I agree by a hundred percent.

BUT, no matter how sophisticated or spacious the airport is, it is not proportionate to the number of tourists. Take the case of the Cebu and Palawan airports. But, that's beside the point.

The point is, airports aren't for sleeping. I am always surprised to find people finding comfort in an airport bench. I assumed when the airport was designed, it didn't have "the idea of sleeping in airports" in mind. There wasn't a need because we come from a culture where there is always someone (a driver, a taxi driver, a family member, Park and Fly shuttle) who'll bring the passenger to the airport. In the other countries mentioned, they do not have the conveniences we are accustomed to.

In our defense, we are the only developing country in that list. Correct me if I'm wrong. The other countries in that list have more than enough resources to update their facilities. They have listed Los Angeles, London, France, Germany, Italy and other European nations.

Have you seen the Roma Fiumicino airport? When I was there, the tiles were broken. The fixtures were torn off the walls. There were no trash bins in the cubicles. May I just say that we're not the only people who haven't learned to flush? I might as well be in the Philippines. It took me a while to decide which is the least dirty of them all.

Paris CDG was quite a disappointment too, after seeing Singapore, HK and Bangkok. It was too small. The arrival area was too crowded for arriving passengers and their assigned drivers. There aren't enough shops and seats for departing passengers. The dining area looks like a cafeteria. The duty free shops in terminal 2A where smaller than what we have in NAIA 2.

LAX is no different. I expected a lot from this airport since it is one of USA's popular cities. The arrival area is chaotic. The departure area is quite boring so we usually hang out at the food court after checking in. It is true, the seats in the pre-boarding area aren't enough for Manila-bound passengers.

My point is, let us not be quick about putting our country down. We have a lot to aim for. But we are no different from the rest.

Even if it is the worst airport in the world, I am always glad to see it from the plane. It means that I am home.

Happy Anniversary?

2011-10-17T15:24:00.001+08:00

In Facebook, a friend mentioned that it was her father's first death anniversary. Then, people started commenting, "Happy 1st Death Anniversary!" Duh?!?! Anubuh?!?!

I know for sure that death is never a happy event. Since when is commemorating death pleasant to the people left behind? Pwede siguro if death leads to sainthood.

That's so odd, ... so insensitive.

Test Pies

2011-10-14T17:04:00.000+08:00

I spent yesterday's early afternoon testing my recipe. This is how the end product looks like:

This was my first time make pies by myself. I was afraid to try it out before because I may end up over-kneading the dough and wasting it.

I got Johann and Javi to play with the dough. They rubbed the butter against the flour. That lessened the time of me manually kneading them. When they got tired, they went back to the TV and left me molding the dough in peace. I used a dusted Ziploc bag and a wine bottle for rolling out small portions of the dough. I experimented with different pies pans, pan sizes, crust trimmings and fillings.

Since I am making these for Christmas, I decided to employ the help of my houseboy. I already taught him how to mold the dough, bake the crust and the filling.

I've forgotten how back breaking baking is. It really is a test of patience and perseverance.

Here are some of my notes:
1. Don't roll out the dough too thinly. It creates a very thin crust that easily breaks.
2. Consider giving out disposable pie pans instead of unmolding the pies from my breakable bakeware. It will be less messy and it will help the presentation of the product.
3. Walnut pies are more visually appealing than cashew pies.
4. I should try making the dough with the food processor. It will be more convenient for mass production.
5. Look for ways to improve the stability of the crust. It is much too flaky and brittle for a 9-inch pie.

All in all, the product tastes great. It is not too sweet nor too dry or soggy. It has just the right amount of crunch. I am really very pleased with this recipe.

Watch out for the next test product... Mango Torte.

Baking Again

2011-10-14T09:14:00.000+08:00

I attended a hands-on baking workshop last weekend. It was facilitated by the San Miguel Culinary chefs. I've always liked attending their baking classes because their recipes pass my taste test. The chefs always shares practical tricks on how to make economical substitutes and how to cut time in the preparation. Here are some of what we made:

This experience convinced me to try my hand at baking again. This time I will practice on pies and other cake recipes. It's nothing fancy, but definitely tasty and appetizing.

I am currently in the process of sourcing and costing ingredients and other materials. Hopefully, by Christmastime, I will be ready to take in orders just like before.

By the way, I am having my own boxes reproduced again. I've contacted my printer already and a meeting has been set. I am hoping that it is still within my price range. Wish me luck!

Last Quarter Loot

2011-10-13T10:00:00.000+08:00

My mother just got back from a three-week long vacation in the US. She purposely went there to attend my cousin's wedding, visit relatives and to shop, of course.

She recently discovered TJ Maxx so just imagine her fascination with the discount store. She and my Auntie from the East Coast visit the store almost everyday just to have first dibs on the new shipment. She got everything I asked her to get me. I believe she got me more items than I got for myself during my trip last summer.

Thanks to mothers who have the same shopping drive as their daughters, I now have a new set of clothes, two pairs of wedges and a pair of boots. Hehehe. Ang saya saya!

A Note to BPI

2011-10-08T16:28:00.000+08:00

Dear BPI,

By the time I get through the Hotline number, my card may have already been maxed out. My savings may have been cleaned up by some thief.

Thankfully, I have no urgent concerns to deal with you right now.

Seriously, you need more people answering urgent concerns. Waiting for more than 5 minutes is simply unacceptable.

Sincerely,

A Valued Client

V Hotel Lavender

2011-10-07T09:48:00.000+08:00

When Vic and I went to Singapore a few weekends ago, it wasn't about shopping or being a tourist. So, usual hotels we're familiar with were beyond convenience. Besides, the rates would've been hiked up on F1 weekend, so we wouldn't have gone there.

Thankfully, a friend suggested V Hotel Lavender. While most hotels boast of their accessibility through public transport, this one is the most truthful. Literally located on top of the Lavender MRT station, this is one of the best hotels I've been to, in terms of convenience. After a day of walking, I am never too tired to walk up to the room. When we got hungry, there were several bread stores and take-away food stalls, a 24-hr Kopi Tiam, and Wendy's. At the MRT station, there we convenience stores for drinks, snacks and emergency meds.

We were 4 stops from Orchard Rd, 2 stops from City Hall and 1 stop from Bugis. It beats having to stay in one of the hotels along Orchard, where we'd have to walk for 10 minutes to get to the hotel.

It had modern facilities, with minimalist interiors. We stayed in a Superior room that looked like this

It had the basics, the TV, ref, complimentary bottled water, safe, toiletries, hair dryer and towels. The closet space was adequate for a short-term stay. It had a ledge by the window for extra seating since there were no other chairs available.

I guess, the trade off for the convenience was the space. The room is quite tiny and you'd almost always bump into your roommate.

My only complaints were:
(1) There's no exhaust in the bath. It can get stuffy in there.
(2) There's only one trash bin. There's none inside the bath.
(3) There are no tissues provided in the room. It can only be found inside the bath.

I'd gladly stay in this hotel when we go back to SG for a visit. I'd make sure to get a bigger room next time.

Thanks Steve!

2011-10-06T08:50:00.000+08:00

To one of the great movers of our time

We owe to you how we live our lives today.

*photo lifted from apple.com

Target Online

2011-10-06T07:03:00.001+08:00

I've been trying to get into target.com for a week now. All I'm getting is this

I've tried it several times a day, early morning, midday, early evening and at dawn . It seems that the site is at its peak all week long. This hasn't happened in years. Grrrr!

Am I the only one having problems with this?

The MacGregors

2011-10-04T08:29:00.002+08:00

When I read books I usually exhaust the titles available under a particular author. I've almost finished Debbie Macomber. Now, I've moved on to Nora Roberts. I'm currently hooked on the MacGregor Saga, starting with the MacGregor Brides then the MacGregor Grooms. I recently found a book that tells the story of the ascendants of the modern day MacGregors. Upon finishing the book, I looked up the author's website to see what book I should get next.

Here's what I found (lifted from the author's website):

Nora parted ways with ******* (the publisher of this series) in 2002, so she will not write any more MacGregor stories.

BUMMER!

Just when I'm so immersed in the story that I view characters as real ones, this happens!?!?!?

What Should I Do?

2011-09-30T10:37:00.000+08:00

Johann's in school on weekdays. Javi's about to start pre-nursery. Bettina is already a toddler. In a couple of years, she'll be starting school also. My days will not be as engaged as it used to be. I'm sensing that my days as a stay-at-home will be over soon.

Since the franchise I am applying for isn't working out at this time, I am on the look out for more income-generating opportunities.

Should I take up baking once again and revive Cathy's Kitchen? I have the equipment, the recipes and the part-time help. I'll only need to reproduce my packaging, which got drenched by Ondoy. On the positive side, I do not need to look for THE perfect location since this can be a home-based business.

Or, should I pursue another franchise application? Again, finding THE perfect location is vital to getting the most of my investment.

I need to make up my mind soon.

Upcoming Workshops/Classes

2011-09-30T10:12:00.000+08:00

I got these in the mail today. The numbers are in the images, if you are interested.

I always get excited over these learning opportunities, specially the take-home goodies. I hope I have nothing planned on those days.

My F1 Weekend

2011-09-28T11:07:00.000+08:00

I wasn't supposed to be in the concert last Friday. My husband booked tickets for the race last March, way before the concert had its date. But since I was part of the organizing committee, I just had to be there. Vic flew to Singapore as scheduled. I stayed behind and flew the next day.

I took the early morning flight to Singapore. Vic and I met at the hotel. I arrived just before lunch. I had enough time to shop and rest before the concerts and the qualifying session.

I had been to the race in Sepang, Malaysia. It was nothing compared to the energy and organization of Singapore F1. I can't begin to imagine how much boost Singapore's economy had gained in this one event. Every part of the city benefited from this. There were temp jobs to fill, an increased demand for shopping, for food, accommodations and transportation. It was really worth the investment for the government. Just look at how many people were there.

Singapore is a crowded city already. But it has become more populated because of the tourists. Despite the masses of people, the city remained clean and efficient.

These are people watching the practice laps in one of the widescreens near the Espalanade.

On Sunday, race day, we managed to visit Marina Bay Sands after hearing mass. The trip to the Skypark was over-rated. It was broad daylight and the sun and humidity were very uncomfortable. We didn't stay up there for more than 10 minutes. We would've wanted to go up at night, but it was closed for the races. We had late lunch was at the the Sands.

Going to MBS from the city is quite a trip. The MRT station nearest the resort is Marina. Once you get off the train, you'd have to walk quite a bit to get to the hotel. This will be a convenient place to stay if the station is built already. Otherwise, you'd have to rely on the taxi service.

Monday was a slow-paced day. We left the hotel just in time for check-out then proceeded to the airport.

All in all, it was a well-spent weekend. I did what I came here to do. I got what I intended to get, except for the p*ta shoes to spice up my holiday wardrobe. Vic got his shirt and got to watch the races. I got to shop. We're happy.

Crunch Time

2011-09-21T13:58:00.000+08:00

Yes, it is that time of the year when everything needs to be this week.

One of my choir's major concerts is happening this Friday. As part of the project team, I am up till the wee hours. Daily rehearsals are being conducted also. Cramming ba kamo?

Then, on Saturday, I am flying to Singapore to join Vic for the F1 race. That means I need to pack for the weekend trip and make sure that the kids bags are packed also. I am dropping them off at my in-laws' house before the concert. They are still recovering from their illnesses, by the way.

I am not even sure if they will get to see me before I leave since I'll be arriving home really late on Friday. So, I am spending more time with them in between errands and other commitments.

I still have to print out my ticket, find my passport, get pocket money from the bank, finalize sponsorship details with Red Crab, print tarp and program notes, pick-up skirting for the risers and finally, order food for the singers.

I am just glad that I don't need to be ngarag by the CD production.

I am hoping and praying that the universe will cooperate with me. This week is not a good time to be friends with Murphy.

Two Visits

2011-09-19T11:08:00.000+08:00

The past week has been toxic for me and Vic. In one week, we went to the ER twice because of ailments we can not relieve at home.

Two Fridays ago, we brought Javi because of a viral infection that affected his bowel movements and has caused dehydration. Before that week ended, we brought in Johann because of non-stop coughing and fever. Fortunately, Javi tested negative for Amoebiasis and Johann has normal lungs and CBC. We have progressed to three types of anti-biotics, with the next more expensive than the one before.

Thankfully, Bettina's condition isn't too severe. We just had an allergy scare that was quickly relieved by Zyrtec and Iterax. If you remember Will Smith's allergy attack in the movie Hitched, then that's ALMOST what happened to her, without the eye swelling.

With a lot of rest and meds, they are on the road to recovery. I, unfortunately, caught the bug.

Inspired

2011-09-14T15:39:00.000+08:00

I was shopping for a birthday gift when I found this.

I got a copy because I feel guilty whenever I let the TV babysit for me. I am not really into arts and crafts and I am running out of ideas on how to spend quality time with my kids. We usually spend time reading books, playing before bedtime, cooking or baking together, going through old pictures.

It has nice ideas for special occasions, indoor and outdoor activities. It has made doing experiments and learning math fun. Most importantly, I am inclined to teach my kids street games I've played in the past. Hello Piko, Patintero, Langit Lupa, Monkey Anabel.

I just might be able to tear them away from the TV.

Nearly Two Years Ago

2011-09-13T09:25:00.000+08:00

This was shot
... when Johann was 2 years old and Javi was just a year old.
... when we only had 2 kids.
... when he a perfectly good set of teeth =D
... when we were still staying Pasig while our house is being renovated.

I'm more inclined to take more videos to documents my kids' development.

Excited Over This

2011-09-06T08:24:00.001+08:00

I stopped by PC Supermarket last week to get some supplies when I found this

I had to give out a little shriek of excitement. I've been looking for something like since I started baking as a hobby.

Marshmallow creme is one the vital ingredients in S'mores. Don't confuse this with marshmallow icing. This is more elastic and less spreadable than the icing.

In the past, I had to resort to local substitutes. I'd sometimes melt mini mallows in milk to form this layer. Just recently, I learned that I could mix the mallows in white meringue mixture then blow torch it a la Creme Brulee.

Soooo....

I tried it yesterday. I baked a batch of S'mores and found it too sweet. It over-powered the chocolate in S'mores. Not good. I probably shouldn't have put the whole tub in one batch. Or, I should've put in more chocolates? Nevertheless, it had this odd aftertaste. Sayang, the graham cracker dough was baked perfectly, not too moist or dry.

I guess, I'll go back to my local version.

A Date With My Boys

2011-08-27T23:57:00.000+08:00

Vic and I decided to take the boys to see their current favorite, Cars 2. Johann has been bugging us to watch Cars 2 in Kong Kong (read: HK) ever since Disney Junior showed it on TV.

We planned to leave Bettina and the yayas in Pasig before heading to the 1PM showing at Rockwell. But the traffic was so bad that we had to settle for the 3PM showing instead. We had brunch and churros, walked around for a bit then got our movie snacks.

It was Javi's first full-length movie in the cinema. Before the movie, I kept on telling him that it will grow dark inside and that he shouldn't be afraid. He had to adjust to the volume so kept on covering his ears when the level was too much for him.

I'm glad that they're already familiar with the movie (c/o a bootleg copy) so they didn't ask a lot of loud and embarrassing questions. In fact, they were captivated by it. Javi's eyes were glued to the big screen. Johann was revving up his fake engine and was making steering movements whenever McQueen's racing.

It was a rare day of indulgence for all of us. But, it's okay. The smile and excitement on my boys' faces were worth it.

Looooooong Weekend

2011-08-27T00:24:00.000+08:00

We're about to start the long weekend and we have nothing planned for the next four days. I feel like I am wasting those days when I should be doing something productive.

I don't want to do chores. I don't want to spend the day in the mall. I want to do something worthwhile without spending a lot. I am certain that I want to get out of the house since I spent most of my time indoors. But that doesn't leave me with too many options.

I was telling Vic that I thought about going to Tagaytay. But there's nothing to do in the house that we can't do here in Manila. We'll just get bored and start binging on Antonio's roasted bulalo. We might as well get bored in Manila, where there are several entertainment options and Internet that can distract us from temptation.

I think it's time to explore the newly-improved QC Memorial Circle, if Mina (the current weather disturbance) permits it. Maybe a stroll along BHS? Hit the cinema with the boys to watch Cars 2? Start another clean-up for a garage sale?

Let's see what I'll feel like doing tomorrow morning.

The Essence of Travelling

2011-08-23T17:48:00.000+08:00

To most Filipinos, leisurely traveling is equated to shopping. If it were a frequently visited destination, I’d probably skip the tourist spots and head to the shops. However, the past few weeks were not about visiting a frequented place. Hence, each day was valued-packed with uncommon sights and experiences. To give you an idea of how intense our two weeks were, here is our itinerary:

Days 1 – 2: Paris

Days 3 – 5: Provence

Days 6 – 9: Rome / Florence

Days 10 – 13: Amsterdam

Days 14 – 15: Paris

This itinerary is not part of a package tour. It is DIY, borne out of invites of several friends and our desire to cross off items in our bucket lists. Isn’t it obvious, we wanted to maximize the cost of the trip?

Despite the busyness of everything, we managed immerse ourselves into the local culture. We ate the local food, rode the public transport, befriended the French and the Italians, and tried to speak the local language. We wouldn’t get that experience from a package tour.

Since it was at least the 2^nd visit for most of us, we’re quite glad that this time, we did everything at our own pace. We didn’t have to worry about being too tired to sing for a concert or a courtesy call and that we didn’t have to lug our costumes everywhere we go. We’re glad that at the end of the day, we had to time look back and assess how we spent our day.

We realized that we’re more mature travelers now. We finished the tourist spots on the first day and resisted the urge to shop. We made sure to sample the local cuisine and check out the region’s products. We lived as the Romans, French and Dutch did.

Travelling necessitates adjusting to the local way of doing things. I’d have to put my culture aside, along with everything familiar to understand that

… Parisians aren’t snobs. They’re still the fast-paced, fashionable people we know them to be. But they open up to someone who tries to speak their language. They are also very different from their Provencal brothers and sisters, who are warmer, more carefree and more family-oriented.

… Italians are very passionate people. They love their rich heritage and history but struggle with the economy that cannot support their passion. Our tour guide, who is an archeologist by profession, says that giving tours is more lucrative than digging. Rome has a lot of history graduates but no work is more financially rewarding than being a tour guide. Meanwhile, some Italians in the retail industry don’t know what customer service is. Shoe shopping isn’t as pleasurable as it is in most countries. I also expected more from McDonald’s at Via Nazionale.

… The Dutch, though allowed certain liberties (prostitution and smoking marijuana), are still very reserved people. They are not rowdy or loud. They can be very aggressive when mounted on their bikes. They are quite conversant in English, making them one of the most tourist-friendly cities in Europe.

Travelling is still the best form of learning any person should be exposed to. It can be mighty expensive. But, it is not bound by age or the state’s educational system.

Ultimately, it is a test of one’s patience, maturity, tolerance, and adaptability. It was an experience out of my comfort zone, making me appreciate and love my home country even more.

Where There Is Love

2011-08-22T20:01:00.000+08:00

The Ateneo Chamber Singers, with conductor Jonathan Velasco, present “WHERE THERE IS LOVE”, a two-part concert on September 23, 2011 at the Philamlife Theater, ( UN Avenue Manila ).

The ACS, known to specialize in sacred choral music, will begin with a repertoire that speaks of love for the Almighty. Set to be performed are inspiring songs of faith from renowned international composers that include Rheinberger, Matshushita, Mealor, Casanas and Hogan.

The second part will showcase a first in the choir’s history as they launch their first-ever love songs collection, “Love I’ve Found In You”. The CD features love songs that are sure to stir the hearts of many. This is the second collaboration of the ACS with Jesuit Communications, following the success of the ACS’s first Christmas Album, “Ang Ating Pasko”. The CD of love songs features works by award-winning songwriters Trina Belamide, Arnel de Pano and Von de Guzman who are also current members of the ACS.

The event promises to be another milestone in the Philippine choral scene with songs that resound of love for God and love for others. Come and watch “WHERE THERE IS LOVE”. Tickets are at P300. Student, senior citizens and group discounts are available. Please contact Lester at 0917-8349839 or visit the FB page of Ateneo Chamber Singers for more details. See you on September 23, 2011 (Friday). Show starts at 7:30PM.

Change/Cambio

2011-08-05T15:01:00.000+08:00

Since all members of the EU use only one currency, I expected that the Euro-$ exchange rate wouldn't vary as much from one country to another. But I assumed wrong. I also didn't expect it to vary that much.

In Paris, the best rest I've gotten was along Pigalle. If you scout around the money changers in the Moulin Rouge area, you get an average of 63Euros to 65Euros for $100. I was a bit disappointed because I was expecting to get around 80Euros. I don't know why.

In Rome, my heart sank when most Cambio stands offer 60Euros for $100. Some even offered 58, net of commission. But, if you happen to be in the Fountain of Trevi, one Cambio offers 65Euros to $100. The Vatican Money Changer, located inside the Vatican Post on the left side (Exit side) of the Basilica San Pietro, gives a good rate also ($100=63Euros). Unless you are a client, very few banks change currencies so better get your Euros from the Cambios.

In Amsterdam, banks are the money changers. I rarely see Money Changers along the streets. ABN-AMRO gives 62Euros for $100. The other bank (WLK?) offers $58. If you're planning to exchange more than $350, you wont be charged for commission.

Tips:
1. Look for money changers far from the tourist spots. They know you are not THAT desperate to change your money for shopping, entrance fees and souvenirs.

2. The bigger the amount, the better rate you'll get. Make sure to pool your money with your friends, so you can negotiate for a better exchange rate.

3. If your ATM allows you to withdraw internationally, use it to get Euros. The service fee depends on the bank.

With the fluctuating US$ rate due to the credit default, I am not sure if it's better to purchase Euros before leaving the Philippines.

I'm Finally Here!!!

2011-07-31T14:29:00.001+08:00

After 10 years, I was able to go back to witness this light up and sparkle before my eyes.

On the first day, I reacquainted myself with the tourist attractions, the Metro and the language. We got to try out new stuff and to window-shop for a bit. I can't help it. We arrived at the tail-end of sale season.

I happened to pass by Rue de Cambon and Rue de Saint Honore on our way from the Louvre. It was a good long walk and all the aching muscles went away when I entered my wonderland. I am looking forward to knowing this city more intimately.

I'm now in the middle of Provence, the land of lush lavender fields

for the main excuse of our trip....

It is Day 4 of traveling with friends.

We're still getting used to each person's quirks. Hopefully, we're still friends by the end of this trip =D

*photos grabbed from jonelski and pkf.

On Duties and Responsibilities

2011-07-18T07:58:00.000+08:00

As the song goes, "All my bags are packed. I'm ready to go...." Haha, I wish it were that easy. (Yes, my bags are packed, with only a few more bilins and toiletries to squeeze into my maleta, I'm all set.)

In 10 days, I am off to a trip with friends. As a hands-on mother and wife, how do I endorse everything I do to the husband and to the help? How do I begin listing down what I do on a daily basis? Though the yayas work with a schedule, there are still some aspects of child-care that are missed.

It was easier back then because I'd leave my kids with my parents and they'd take care of everything, from food, monitoring playtime and overseeing the nannies. Now, the husband will reign over the household. How do I make the transition easy for him, for my peace of mind? My husband is more capable in the office and has more patience with adults.

I need to go through my daily routine in my head and list it down. This entails a great deal of concentration. I hope I don't miss a thing.

Too Far Away

2011-07-12T14:25:00.000+08:00

Since Halloween is three months away, I don't think my little girl's costume will fit by then. Look at how much she's grown.

Looks like she'll be going to the mall as Tink.

San Miguel BOS for July

2011-07-12T14:23:00.000+08:00

For those who love to try out new recipes (like me), San Miguel brings us their Business Opportunity Series for July. Click on the image for details.

Valentine's Day in July

2011-07-07T15:16:00.000+08:00

For Tickets, call SM Tickets, Star Express at 5452435, Beginnings at 20Plus at 7531609

Schengen Visa Application

2011-07-07T13:13:00.001+08:00

I had an 8AM appointment at the French Embassy, today. I arrived early and was able to score a parking space inside the Pacific Star Building. I was instructed to register at the guard, after parking. Since I was an hour early for my appointment, I was told to come back by 7:40 since the Embassy is still closed.

By 7:40AM, I was back at the parking level (B1) and was waiting by the benches like the other applicants. A few minutes later, our names were called to proceed to the 16th floor.

We didn't wait long until our bags were checked and were asked to surrender our cellphones/other electronic devices. The guard gave me a set of guidelines that contains the requirements. It is the same document you'll get from the website.

I was Applicant #4.

Step 1: Payment and Verification of Documents

I presented all my documents at Window 2. He also asked to see my previous passports. (It's a good thing that I brought them at the last minute) He just said that I should have photocopies of the documents.
I was confused because I already photocopies, apparently, they weren't enough. I asked to confirm, "Even if I don't need the originals?" To which he replied, "para mabilis na mamaya."

Di niya rin sinagot tanong ko. But, I let it go.

I went back to the reception area and asked where is the nearest photocopier. I was directed to the ground floor.

Step 2: Biometrics and Interview

I hurriedly went back fearing that my number has been called already. I got in just in time. I was summoned to Window 4.

I was asked to place my fingers on the scanner. Then, I had my picture taken. Afterwards, he asked for my application form and PHOTOCOPIES of the other documents. He DIDN'T need the original documents.

Kaya naman pala! Sana sinabi na lang nila noh? I had to get fresh NSO copies thinking it'll be like applying for a Japanese Visa.

The Questions:
1. How long will you be staying? Where will you be going? Blah, blah, blah

2. Why are you going?
Me: A Friend of mine's getting married in the south of France.
Consul: Do your friends live here?
Me: No, my friend relocated to Paris two years ago.
Consul: What is the name of your friend?
Me:

Consul checks the Embassy records to see if there are legal issues.

3. Where does your husband work? Do you have any idea what he does? How much does your husband earn per month? (I guess he read that I am a stay-at-home mom). Blah, blah, blah

4. Is this your first time to apply for a Visa?
Me: No. I got one in 2000.
Consul: Where did you apply the first time?
Me: I can't remember. I think at the German Embassy.

I was nervous by this time because he was stamping my passport and was making marks on my application form. Denied?

Then he gave me back my passports and a receipt. They don't need the passport. I will have to come back with my reciept and passport when the Visa is ready. Me thinking, "Thank God!"

Then, I asked, "So are we done?" To which he replied, "Yes."

I walked away, pleased. It was only 8:30AM.

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Among my friends, I was the last person to appear before the Consul. Naturally, I already knew what to expect. I already heard the horror stories. I was ready to hear condescending tones and mean retorts. Surprisingly, I got none of those. They didn't smile but they weren't mean either.

Maybe one socialite complained to the French Ambassador? What do you think, Jonel?

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Before coming to the Embassy, make sure that:
1. You have previously called for an appointment. I was able to secure my appointment last April. Don't expect it to be easy. I was on the phone for two hours because the line was always busy or the calls get disconnected during the call transfer.

2. All documents are photocopied. Even if the guidelines say otherwise, photocopy EVERYTHING.

3. You have the exact amount for the Visa Application Fee. The guard said to prepare Php3730 because no change will be given. I thought to myself, "Pano yun P30?" Then he said, "one Php50 and four Php20." Oo nga naman.

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It is difficult to get Visas from France, Italy and Spain due to the number of TNTs in those countries. Consider applying at other member states. Just make sure that it will be your main destination.

Adelaide: First (and Lasting) Impressions

2011-07-05T00:11:00.037+08:00

When I went to the capital of South Australia for a quick visit, I had no expectations. I hadn't heard much about Australia and it didn't interest me enough to read about it. I've known about it through trashy romance novels and history classes.

The People:
Australians are quite different from most Asians, not only in looks but also in ways. The major difference that struck me was that they keep to themselves. They do not mind other people. They do not measure people up by looking at what purse she's carrying or if she's wearing hip clothing. Each person is free to just BE. There's no pressure to keep up with The Joneses.

They are also very keen on following the law. Because of very steep fines, they are very strict in obeying the policies. In the airport, mobile phones can't be turned on until the you get past customs. I was observing everyone and everyone was very obedient. If it were here in the Philippines, it would've been much different.

Being part of the Commonwealth, they are keep track of the lives of the British Royal Family. The daily news consists of updates from the UK.

The Fashion:
There's not much to be excited about their street clothing. I am not certain if it is because of winter that everything is dark and drab. I see some British influence here. I do not mean London street stlye.

They also have their own version of Target. When I stepped inside, I was expecting to see familiar brands and more up-to-date styles. But I was wrong. Most of the clothing resemble the M&S line for old ladies.

When I was there, Zara was slated to open in Sydney. People were lining up outside the store like one would in the U.S. during Thanksgiving Sale. That's how hungry they were for fashionable clothing!

They also have outlet shops but it is still on the expensive side. Besides, there is still much to be desired in terms of style and quality.

The Places:
They are big on nature. When you ask a local about tourist attractions, they'd point you to the zoo, the beach (Glenelg), to an island (Victor Harbor or Kangaroo Island) to see these...

On holidays, they go trekking, have a picnic or lay on the beach. That is how they prefer to relax.

Unlike some people (ME), the mall is just a place for them to buy necessities. Shopping is not the biggest past time because everything there is expensive. Their malls lack seats for exhausted shoppers.

Transportation:

They have a very efficient transport system. The city is well-covered by the tram and buses. No one would have to walk far to get to a bus stop. One ticket would cost A$4.70. But that could take you as far as your 2 hours would take you. Even if the fare is expensive, there are free routes so you can just hop in and out of the bus or tram if you are headed to any of those. The same ticket will allow you to ride the bus and the tram. Most tourist spots are serviceable by public transport so there is really no need to rent a car. It is just a bit difficult to read the route matrix.

As for cars, almost anybody can own one. Gas prices are similar to Manila price ranges.

The Events:
Apart from Miley's and Kylie's, I'd say concerts are a bit backward from what I am used to. Olivia Newton John is still big over there.

TV show stages and props are very Bob-Barker-The Price is Right era. Imagine Deal or No Deal in that set-up.

Sports is a big thing, specially footie. People miss their Sunday obligations because of this.

They also hold frequent Sea and Vine festivals to celebrate abundance in seafood and wines.

Nights out usually end at 9PM. Malls close at 5:30 on weekdays. By 6:30PM, you'd think it was already 8:30PM, judging by the darkness outside.

The Australian Palate:
Food and Drinking are other aspects altogether. You can also see the British influence here. There are several restaurants offering Fish and Chips. They love pub-crawling, their version of bar-hopping.

I find most of their food bland. I am just not sure if I am just used to the rich flavor of Pinoy food. I may be leaning towards the salty side.

Wines are a different matter. There's a great selection of wines from Barossa and Adelaide Hills. The best I've sampled were from Jacob's Creek and Seppeltsfield.

Steaks, cheeses and chocolates were abundant in the Central Market. Haigh's Chocolates from Rundle always give me excitement. Same with truffle honey and cheeses. I'd come back for those anytime.

Adelaide is such a small part of Australia and I know I should not limit my observations to what I've stated above. I'm sure Sydney is a lot different being a bigger city and all. I've only scratched the surface. I'm sure there's more to be excited about.

Do I want to visit it again? Sure, but not in the near future.

It’s Always A Pleasure

2011-06-22T00:41:00.000+08:00

... to NOT fly Philippine Airlines. (Tama ba, Grammar Police?)

Over the past few years, I’ve gotten better deals through Cathay Pacific and Singapore Airlines. Even if the ticket price is more affordable, I didn’t feel that I was short-changed with the quality of service they’ve provided me.

The aircraft I’ve ridden were always new. Each seat was equipped with individual entertainment consoles. I was frequently offered drinks and snacks. The cabin crew was very pleasant whenever I had a request. They always came when I needed one. Unlike my experience here.

I sincerely hope that Asia's First Airline will catch up soon. It is such a pity that they offer pathetic service at such a high price. Maybe someday, PAL will be sincere when they say “It was our pleasure serving you.”

Ay Jusko!

2011-06-15T09:57:00.000+08:00

That's what blurted out when I saw this...

photo c/o Neiman Marcus

I've been wanting to get a Gauffre for some time now. So, when I saw this color in nylon... hay.

I didn't want to get one in leather because it is too expensive AND I can't take care of leather that is too supple. I'll just end up scratching the bag.

But I have a bag wishlist to follow. Oh well, let's see what'll happen in Florence.

Two Sales One Trip

2011-06-15T09:18:00.001+08:00

It seems that my trip is very timely. When I arrived last week, I didn't realize that Australia is having the Financial Year End Sale. But, it was of no use to me. Everything is really expensive here.

What I am looking forward to is the Great Singapore Sale. Since I had to stay the night in Singapore for my connecting flight to Manila, I decided to stay a bit longer so I can explore the city. I managed to book the latest flight in the afternoon so I had at least 6 hours to waste on Orchard Rd. Nyehehe!

Oh SIA, why do I only have 20kgs? Sa vino pa lang kulang na.

Oz, Finally!

2011-06-14T19:20:00.001+08:00

It was a whirlwind trip, right from the start.

After 10 million years, I eventually received my Australian Visa last Wednesday. Two hours later, after talking my mother into looking after the kids while I'm gone, my ticket is ready. Since I've been monitoring the airfare rates to Oz and back, I already knew which flights I'll be getting. Thank God for online booking!

I arrived in Adelaide on Friday morning. I got in just in time for the long weekend. It was the Queen's birthday, you know.

While Vic was in the office, I explored the Rundle Mall and the Central Market. The following day was spent touring around Victor Harbor and Glenelg courtesy of Filipino friends. Sunday was for hearing mass, shopping in Ikea and doing chores. Monday was Wine Tasting day at the Barossa Wineries. Today, Tuesday, I checked out the local outlet shops.

I have a few more days left before I head back home to my children.

Whirlwind or not, I am glad that I am here. I'm sure the husband is, too.

Will I be Dorothy?

2011-06-04T17:31:00.000+08:00

Two weeks ago, when Vic and I were reeling from separation anxiety, we frequently checked airline rates, just to see if we can afford to be together for just a few weeks. When Cathay Pacific came out with US$383* for a trip to Adelaide, we decided to submit an application to the Australian Embassy.

I was fortunate that the US Embassy didn't ask for any documents from me. I was able to use those for this application. I filled up the appropriate visa form, prepared all other proofs of income and ties to the Philippines, and had my picture taken. I also had to secure a Manager's Check worth P4700 for the Visa Application. Once everything was ready, I submitted it to the VIA Center in Arnaiz.

In the end, I had to pay P600 for the processing and passport delivery. I was given a tracking number that I can use at via.ph.

Though I can have the courier pick up the application from my place, I opted to submit it personally. There weren't too many applicants and the process was pretty simple so I didn't spend more than 30 minutes at the Via Center. Waiting for the result was another issue.

So, eight days after submitting my application, I am still waiting if I will be given a pass to enter Oz.

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Looks like God is making a way for us. Johann's school recently moved to another location. It is not yet ready and is still undergoing repairs and renovations. If school opens after the June 20 Holiday, I just might be able to go. Oh well, I wont know until I receive my passport.

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*Don't be fooled by the fare. That doesn't include the $400+ tax yet. Yes, it's as expensive as going to the US.

After 27 Million Years

2011-05-31T08:28:00.000+08:00

... our A/C will be fixed today.

The motor part we've been waiting for the whole summer arrived already. Someone from the authorized service center will drop by to fix it.

Thank God, we wont be using our vintage A/C anymore. I can just guess how much electricity we've consumed in the past three weeks.

He Provides

2011-05-27T16:52:00.000+08:00

Everyday I am struck by stories of God's providence. Each time, I am humbled by how simple others live and how much they are thankful for. I am ashamed to admit, even to myself, that I always ask for more than what I need. Yet, He still provides.

Now that our income has decreased because of investments not pulling through, I try not to worry and just trust that He will make a way to even out the injustice in this world. Karma Chameleon lang yan!

To be fair to Him and to my husband (who works hard for the money), I try to live simply. Every time I feel the urge to splurge, I ask if I need it. You may have noticed that I haven't purchased anything of "value" this year. Hooray for EQ! Hooray for me!

But, seriously, nakakahiya naman sa kanila noh!

Hinog Sa Pilit

2011-05-24T08:47:00.002+08:00

I am often bothered by pre-school children dressed like teenagers, sometimes posing as teenagers would.

Why do some moms allow that? I suppose they find it cute. I find it strange because some moms hold on to their daughters' childhood as long as they can, by dressing them appropriately and telling them to act their age.

Hay, it's almost as bad as a 40y/o dressing like her daughters.

What's your take on this?

Life Down Under

2011-05-23T15:26:00.002+08:00

My husband's been in Oz for 5 days now and he is bored to death. Establishments close at 5PM. No wonder band gigs happen at 3PM. I am not sure if it's the same way in the bigger cities. I know that it is going to be difficult to beat homesickness and the winter blues if that's everyday life.

I'm glad he is enjoying the fresh cheeses and cold cuts from the nearby open market. It's also nice to know that there's a Filipino store just a few blocks away.

We've been thinking of me joining him there. It'll be just for a few weeks, before Johann's school starts. Ewan. We still have to factor in Visa processing. Baka pauwi na siya by the time I'm ready to leave. Oh well. I am just waiting for his decision.

Shopping with Coupons

2011-05-20T09:08:00.000+08:00

When we were in the Land of the Free, I've seen my Tita bring coupons to her shopping trips. She got $6 off on Ecotrin. We saved $5 in Toys R Us using a coupon lying just beside the cashier. Now, looking through Target's coupons, I realized, I could've saved another $10 on some items we purchased like Aveeno, Neutrogena, on Men's and Ladies' apparel. Who know what else I could've gotten at a lesser price.

Since we do not practice this here, I didn't know that I could get further discounts. It was too late when I found out about it. Sayang.

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Here in our country, we have something similar. If you are familiar with the Groupon sites that allow you to purchase a service or item using vouchers, then that's it. However, you'd have to purchase the voucher then pay again if you exceed the value of the voucher. But, these are implemented on big-ticket items only.

Will coupon shopping work in the Philippines?

Three Continents

2011-05-20T08:43:00.000+08:00

... in one week. That's how it was for Vic. It is awfully tiring, both physically and emotionally. We arrived from our vacation last Tuesday. Yesterday, I brought him to the airport for Oz.

My kids and I can't wait for the next 6 weeks. Hay, buhay OFW. Ang hirap pala.

US with Kids

2011-05-18T16:59:00.002+08:00

Going to the United States with kids in tow is a different experience. My kids have never traveled that long in a plane. No yayas were around to look after them. Vic and I took turns washing them and giving them baths. We also took turns feeding them.

Everyday of that two-week trip, I thanked God for modern conveniences like microwavable food, the dishwasher, Disney Junior and Target pushcarts with built-in forward-facing seats. It made my job as a mother and a parent easier. Watching over my boys were not really a chore. They were big enough to be left alone to play. Vic and I could just let them sit in front of the TV so we can pack/unpack and do other chores. I didn't mind doing it until they were being bratty or fighting over toys.

Before our trip, here were some of our considerations:

Car seats. I had those items in our budget. It wasn't expensive at all. In fact, a pair of Nine West shoes is more expensive. Fortunately, I had cousins who lent us theirs. This is a necessity for us since we often took long drives to Ontario, San Diego, Cabazon, Vegas and Boulder City. Due to the pace of freeway drivers and kids falling asleep during boring rides, booster seats with back support were a necessity.

Transportation. We had to get a car that can fit the car seats, stroller and luggage. It was inevitable to get a rental because cars in the US are like appendages of their owners. It was difficult to borrow an extra car from a relative. Thank God for corporate rates, we got rentals at 50% off the regular rate.

Food. Since we were in an unfamiliar territory, I didn't know which food Johann and Javi will favor in a particular destination. I always had their favorite food in our diaper bag. On the first stay, our first trip was to the grocery to get our staples: bread, Nutella, bacon, chicken nuggets, pancakes, pancake syrup, V8 Fusion.

Johann and Javi survived on those for two weeks. Pathetic, I know. Javi is such a picky eater, he wouldn't try anything else. At least Johann had Adobo, Pink's hotdogs, pancit, PF Chang's Orange Chicken and Mongolian Beef.

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We had to carefully choose where to bring the kids. Our first day was practically free to catch up on sleep and recover from jetlag. We had to pace ourselves to give us time for naps. Besides, entrance fees to tourist destinations are expensive. Child rates are only a few dollars cheaper than the adult rate. It was good that Javi got in for free because we were only required to pay for kids 3 years and above.

In California - We drove to San Diego for Sea World, outlet malls, Santa Monica in between visits to relatives. We didn't bother going to Hollywood because the kids wouldn't understand and to Disneyland because the kids are too small for the rides.

Las Vegas - Our access to casinos were limited because we have kids. Wynn dBut The Strip is lined with Handicap access so our walk along Las Vegas Blvd wasn't difficult at all. We took the kids to Hoover Dam, the Ferrari showroom at the Wynn, the Fountains at the Bellagio, the M&M store and of course, the outlet malls.

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When it came to shopping, my kids were very cooperative. Haha, we trained them well!

I made it a point to pack several Nutella sandwiches, chicken nuggets with rice, milk and water every time we go out. Javi is always seated in his stroller while Johann was free to ride along using his Buggy Board. When they got bored, we turned to their iPad and toys.

With them in tow, our first stops were usually Children's Place, Gymboree, the Disney Store or Gap Kids. Once we've gotten them their stuff, they're ready to settle down then Vic and I take turns shopping for our personal stuff.

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I got asked several times, if we even considered moving to the US. I said NO. It never crossed our minds and I never wished it even for a time. I've been treated unfairly because I'm Asian. I've seen too many marriages break up because of everyday stress brought by work and family life. If Vic and I become full-time parents, we just might make it. But that is not realistic.

Living in the US has its ups and downs. For me, I see more disadvantages than opportunities. I wouldn't trade that for our life in Manila.

What a Warm Welcome!

2011-05-18T00:26:00.000+08:00

We arrived early yesterday morning to 32C. I have no problems with the heat because I can usually take it. What's bothering me is our aircon. We were hoping that it'll be repaired by the time we get back. Punyemas! It's already a month since the parts were ordered and we still don't have them. Summer is almost over and our electricity is running because the inverter aircon is busted!

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Summer has just settled in when our A/C broke. It started making noises then it just stopped producing cool air. It is just our luck that the warranty expired just a month before this incident. We had no other choice but to move into the den. It is the only room that can hold us all together, with the comfort and convenience of the A/C, TV, and computer.

I miss the privacy and the peacefulness of our room.

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When I called Panasonic to inquire about their parts, they said that their ETA is June. Ganda! Summer is already over by the time it'll get fixed.

Looks like we'll be sleeping in the den for 4 more weeks.

In The Land of the Free

2011-05-01T02:31:00.000+08:00

We flew in the day Osama Bin Laden was killed. It was, in fact, the news that welcomed us as we entered my cousin's house.

That piece of news bothered me no less. I was already fidgety because just a few days before that, Gaddafi's sons were killed. I made a mental note to stay away from tourist spots.

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Our flight in was quite pleasant except for PAL's "exceptional" customer service. It wasn't bumpy at all so the kids were able to sleep during the flight. We got the preferred seats so Johann and Javi had space to move around when they were finally awake.

There were a couple of food accidents but WE managed WITHOUT the help of the cabin crew. They always took a lot of time to get to us. When they finally did, they spoke to us with THAT condescending tone. I decided to let it go. In cases like that, I always showed them saccharine politeness that bordered on sarcasm. May araw din kayo.

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Immigration was a breeze. The lines were short. I don't know why but the immigration officer just HAD to call someone to escort us from there. At first, I thought they were assisting us because we had two small children in tow. Apparently, it was a customs officer who "assisted" us from Immigration. Sinuswerte nga naman talaga kami. We were getting nervous because I bought a luggage-full of food as pasalubong. Though I distributed them to the four bags, they may still question them.

The officer asked, "You have raw meat or fish? Balut? Chicharon? Walis Tingting? To which we answered NO. I also said we only brought food for the kids. Then he ran everything through the scanner.

He didn't ask about the suman or danggit. I guess those passed.

This surprise inspection was a blessing in disguise. We were able to cut through the long lines going out of LAX.

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Upon arriving at the airport, we were met by my Tito and Tita. We will be going around the LA area in the next few days. We're driving to Vegas on Thursday to meet the rest of the clan. We will be back in LA just be before we fly back.

I am anxious about how the kids will adjust to life in the US. I hope they won't give us a hard time.

Success!

2011-05-01T00:38:00.000+08:00

We wrapped up Bettina's 1st Birthday party a few hours ago. I am glad that kids and adults alike enjoyed what we prepared for them. We were bothered by the sun and the humidity. But, that didn't stop the kids from joining the games. We were all impressed by Jiggle's balloon sculptures. We had endless supply of taho and ice cream in Champola cones. I just don't know how we're going to dispose all those balloons.

I glad that Bettina managed to stay awake throughout the party. Both kuyas were very cooperative and wore their assigned costumes till it was time to change. Though many sent in their regrets for not attending, it was still a lively party. Everyone went home sweaty and sticky but smiling =P

I am still reeling from the success of the party, I can't sleep. Or, maybe I'm just anxious and excited about the days ahead?

Marks and Spencer Bakery

2011-04-19T13:13:00.000+08:00

I couldn't believe it until I saw it. I didn't even know that there was such a thing. I didn't encounter anything similar in HK or in UK. But, I knew that their pastries and desserts were really good.

The Marks and Spencer Bakery is located beside the M&S boutique in Eastwood. In fact, they share the same entrance. Upon entering the food section, you'd see a small display rack of the breads, doughnuts and cookies on the left. On the other side, you'll see the packaged food items. The frozen pies and dinners were located on the opposite wall.

There weren't a lot of baked goods to choose from. There were only a couple of doughnuts left, a few pieces of cookies, one piece of bagel, several almond croissants and other British pastries. The batards and baguettes were stacked in the corner of the counter, below one's line of sight. I am not sure if the display, or the lack of, will be good business for them.

I only got to sample the chocolate chip cookie and the chocolate-glazed doughnuts. The cookie tasted great. The same kind of chocolate you get from the digestive cookies, you'll also taste in the cookies. However, it seemed over done. For a cookie the size of a "platito," it didn't have the same consistency all-throughout. The doughnuts seemed to be exposed for too long already that the bread is already turning crusty. Not a good first impression.

The store looked unappealing. Everything is stark white, even the trays. It looked so utilitarian for a bakery. I think it needs warm colors to lure the buyers.

The price range seemed reasonable though. It is very close to that of Bread Talk, and a bit cheaper than those offered in coffee shops. Since it also offers beverages, it may give its neighbor some serious competition, if only they had tables and chairs.

I will probably give it a few more months before I sample their stocks again. By then, they may have gotten over the usual operational hurdles of start-up bakeshops. I am hoping for better tasting breads from them in the future.

Targets

2011-04-17T20:48:00.000+08:00

Some would call them wishlists. I call them targets. For the kitchen, these are my targets from my favorite home store, Crate and Barrel.

An apple corer

A Mango pitter. You may have seen Bobby Flay use this several times in Boy Meets Grill and Throwdown.

An Ice Cream maker, which is currently at half-price

An compact smoothie maker, also at half-price

And, just because it is so cute, a strawberry huller. I can't even guess how to use it. I am not even fond of strawberries.

And, like all other targets, I just might miss them.

Playing Pretend

2011-04-11T17:07:00.000+08:00

Pretend was the name of the game. I was pretending that I was watching Junior Master Chef while Johann and Javi were playing pretend. My eyes were glued to the TV because if I give them as much as a glance, the boys will stop with whatever their doing.

Here is Johann and one of his imaginary conversations in his pretend phone. He was holding one of his toy cars against his ear while the other hand was clutching on the steering wheel.

"San ka na?" After a few minutes... "EDSA pa lang ako eh, papunta ko Pasig." Pausing to hear the other side of the conversation, he says, "O sige punta na kayo dito."

I had to stop and think who he was imitating. He sounded like me. The situation looked like me. I almost always have conversations on the phone while driving.

Here is another one.
"O Pepsi, nag order na kayo?" He was "talking" to his Ninang but assuming the character of his dad. "Mag-order ka na, isang lechon at baka ha."

At this point, I couldn't hold back my laughter anymore.

Lechon?!?! Baka!??!

Times Flies

2011-04-05T19:54:00.000+08:00

We're celebrating Bettina's birthday in 3 weeks. I've been planning this for nearly a year. I booked our suppliers more than 6 months ahead. I decided on the party theme nearly that long also. Even if I had time to plan, I still encountered several setbacks, with the host/entertainer, photographer, giveaways. I am meeting with my Jhoanne of Polkadots soon so we can finalize all the other details.

Anyway, here's the invitation Tito Boyette came up with. More party details to follow =D

Cosmetic(s) Change

2011-04-05T09:37:00.000+08:00

I've been meaning to replace my face powder for weeks now. I've been using a cheapangga brand and I can feel it on my face. I can also see the effect it has. My complexion has changed and I don't blame it all on lack of sleep. However, I only remember that when it is time to put on "my face."

So, yesterday, before going to the grocery, I made a quick visit to the cosmetics section. I went back to one of my tried and tested brands and I found out that they released a new variant.

I was so pleased when I tested it over the counter. Though it comes with great coverage, it doesn't feel heavy. It also has this cooling effect on the skin. Don't you think it's perfect for summer?

It is P300 more expensive than the other kind but I guess that's because the brush applicator is of better quality.

I thought it was such a bargain at first. Then, I saw how much Target retails the item. I could have gotten it for half the price If I only waited.

Hay Naku!

2011-04-03T22:34:00.000+08:00

It is hard to think happy thoughts when unpleasant surprises come my way. I'm a planning freak so when something disrupts my plan, I get very upset. I cope but I get upset.

Impeding trips or online (window) shopping usually perk me up. But it isn't working this time.

I Am NOT Excited

2011-03-27T00:22:00.004+08:00

Our passports were delivered just before lunch today. By 5PM, we've already booked our flights. My mind is working overtime. I'm already making a shopping list. My mind's thinking of what to bring and what food to feed my kids in an unfamiliar territory. I've checked out the weather forecast as well as the car-rental service. I'll be purchasing a set of car seats and will have them shipped in time for our arrival. I've gotten hold of cousins I haven't seen in years. A get-together is being conceptualized at this time.

My mind is thinking: P.F. Chang's, outlet stores, Bath and Body Works, Crate and Barrel.... How I wish we can afford a trip to the East Coast.

Hay, excited much? Di naman. Di nga ko makatulog eh.

But, seriously, I feel guilty for leaving Bettina a day after her party.

Speaking of Bettina's birthday party, I need to put this aside so I can focus on that. I still haven't finalized my caterer, giveaways supplier, decors and invitations.

But, wait, before that, I'm forgetting that my birthday's coming up too.

The New US Embassy in Manila

2011-03-22T16:21:00.006+08:00

Just a few weeks ago, the Visa Processing Section of the US Embassy has moved to the newly-constructed building. It is the one right beside the bay. If you are familiar with Ermita Center, it's across that.

Though we were aware of this relocation, we failed take note of it. We parked near Museo Pambata thinking that I was just a short walk from there. Boy, we were wrong. By the time we reached the waiting area, the kids were already tired of the longer walk.

If you arrive early for your appointment, you will be asked to wait in the open area near the bay. You will only be let in an hour before your appointment. If you're appointment is past 9am, I suggest bringing an umbrella. There aren't enough shaded areas in that side of the embassy.

Pleasant changes await inside the new building. Granite counters line the interview windows. There are more seats in the waiting areas. Snack kiosks are in case you are hungry, thirsty or just bored. The restrooms also come with A/Cs so you may hang out in there like what Vic and Johann did. A Kodak booth is located inside the premises just in case there is something wrong with your copy.

All-in-all, it was very efficient, sleek and modern.

The new infrastructure also came with an updated application process:

1. Upon entering the gates, your documents will be checked. Make sure you have the DS-160 confirmation page, Appointment letter and passport. You will be given a number at this point. One number is given to family applicants. Be sure to hold on to this number because it will be your number throughout the process. People are called into the screening/interview area in sequence, not in random.

2. Upon entering the gated section, you will be asked to sit in the first waiting area. Your documents will be checked and stamped inside the new building. After which, you have to go outside again to wait for finger-printing.

3. The four fingers on the left hand will be scanned first; then the other four fingers on the right followed by the two thumbs. Johann and Javi were waiting for their turn at the scanner. But, we were informed that there's no scanning for children below 14. After this, applicants were asked to wait in the building

4. Interview

5. If Visa is granted, no additional payment is required. I was told to expect delivery by courier within a week. Buti naman, they decided to get that from the Php 6160 I paid per applicant.

Unfortunately, there is no longer a priority lane for applicants with children. I was worried there for a bit. The kids are tired of waiting and are about to throw tantrums and Vic had to leave us for something important at work. I asked if they can allow my yaya to go inside. Di daw pwede.

However, there are more people assisting the applicants. They are no longer confined inside the windows. I was surprised to find courteous and helpful attendants and guards. When I showed up at the Embassy five years ago, they were very condescending. The people, even the Officers, were very approachable.

If you have a choice, opt for an earlier appointment. This way, you wont get delayed by the backlog from the earlier appointments. Our appointment was at 11:15. They told us to expect to be interviewed right after they resume from lunch. True enough, we were the very first ones to be interviewed after lunch. At 1:10PM, we were on way out.

Quick Reminder: No more surrendering of mobile phones and other electronic devices at the guard. Make sure that you leave your phones, iPods, iPads and other devices behind before entering the premises.

Pre-Event Shoot

2011-03-21T16:03:00.005+08:00

For Bettina's birthday, I asked the photographer I hired to come for a pre-event shoot. We'll be using the photos for her invites, tarps and giveaways. Here are some shots from that early Saturday morning.

Ang hirap lang pangitiin. I hope my artist/cousin-in-law will be able to get something from these.

Serbilis Experience

2011-03-19T14:55:00.003+08:00

I was gathering the documents I'll be needing for the Visa Application when I noticed that all the certificates (birth and marriage) I have on file are more than a year old already. The documents should be less than 6 months old.

So, on a Tuesday, when my car had only 2 hours left on the road, I trooped to the Main Office of NSO. If I remember correctly, filing for the request was just a breeze. It was the releasing of the document that took a lot of time.

It seems that I remembered correctly. It took me less than 10 mins to fill up and pay for the 4 requests. It took me longer to locate a parking space near the office. I had to go around East Ave twice.

I was asked to come back at 3:30, 2 hours after I filed the request. Unfortunately, I couldn't wait because my car should no longer be on the streets by 3PM.

I came back early Thursday morning. This time, I left my car at the Techno Hub and asked Vic to drop me off on his way to work. With my receipts in hand, I was directed to a window with no queue. Got all the documents in less than 5 mins! Ganda!

All-in-all, it took me less than hour to get the NSO documents. It was much faster than waiting it out in one day.

How I wish all other government agencies were as quick and efficient.

We Need to be Ready

2011-03-17T12:25:00.002+08:00

I am not one to spread fear. I constantly pray for guidance, protection and security. I also pray for wisdom and the ability to make my children understand what is to come.

If you are a Catholic, you would have heard of Sr. Lucia. It seems that the Third Secret from Our Lady of Fatima has been published. It's going around in Facebook.

I first thought that it was just false prophecy. But, even the Vatican has issued an official statement regarding this. You may read it here.

We all need to focus on what is important. With faith and prayers, God and the Blessed Virgin will guide our way.

School's Out!

2011-03-15T07:58:00.004+08:00

Our summer officially started yesterday. School ended last Friday with Johann's Moving Up Day.

He received the Most Responsible Award from his teachers. He just refused to go up to Teacher to accept the award. He was always shy to go in front of a crowd.

Since he knew that school is over, Johann has been very excited to wake up every morning. He's almost always awake by 7am. He already has an agenda for the day: what to watch on TV, what to play with or where to go.

For ten months, we've been having problems waking him up for school. Kainis!

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Parents also look forward to this time of the year. We no longer have to wake up as early. We don't have to think of baons and homework. Most importantly, early morning battles about waking up is non-existent.

On G6PD

2011-03-11T00:18:00.004+08:00

When Bettina underwent the Newborn Screening, we found out that she has this condition called G6PD (Glucose-6-Phosphate Dehydrogenase deficiency).

At first, it was difficult to get used to that idea because none of my elder kids had this. I couldn't fathom the idea that we can not feed her peanuts, legumes, anything with soy, anything with menthol, et. al. She can't even inhale anything menthol. So, bye-bye Ben-gay and Vicks.
Pano na siya mag-toothbrush? It was also difficult for me because I can't ingest any of those forbidden items since I was breast-feeding her.

We stopped worrying for a while. Her diet was strictly milk then.

Now that we have introduced solids to her diet, I am trying to know more about this condition called G6PD.

I knew that it was a condition that could lead to Anemia. What I didn't know was that excess bilubirin (the yellowish pigment that causes jaundice) can cause mental retardation and even death.

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Here are they symptoms I have to watch out for:

abnormal paleness or lack of color of the skin or underside of eyelids
grayish-blue coloring to fingernails or tongue
jaundice, or yellowing of the skin, eyes, and mouth
fever
dizziness
confusion
headache
weakness
intolerance of physical activity
difficulty breathing
tea-colored urine
rapid or strong heart beats (tachycardia)
heart murmur
abdominal or back pain or both

If the baby's poop is yellow, that is also another symptom I'd have to consult the pediatrician.

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Someone mentioned that we should do away with soy sauce altogether. I am not sure if I am ready for that. I still have to find an alternative.

A Reflection

2011-03-09T08:20:00.006+08:00

The Lenten Season officially starts today. With so many things going on, I'd have to remember that it's also a day of fasting and abstinence.

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I find it so troubling that people these days no longer trust the Church. They'd rather skip the priests and the sacraments and go directly to God. To many, this human aspect of the Church has been causing the indifference of many Catholics.

These people believe in God but they do not believe in the structure that God Himself created. Masyado na ba tayong naging bilib sa sarili? Remember, THAT started the downfall of man.

Let us remember that we also need this human aspect. When we have a big dilemma, we run to them. When we need a response from God, we seek theirs. When we need to hear that we're forgiven, don't we believe them?

This human characteristic is there to provide guidance, to make a relationship with God more attainable and less mysterious. They may err on the implementation and may have carried out their responsibilities too far. Then again, they are human beings too, with a special mandate and grace from God.

Lent is a good time to recall God's sacrifice to humankind, His graciousness and generosity. It is also the best time for humility.

Taxi - Sighting

2011-03-08T15:24:00.001+08:00

Will you ride in this taxi?

Sale Alert!

2011-03-07T21:10:00.002+08:00

The much-awaited sale of the year is here!

Vic and I will be there early. I hope the rack we've been eying for the past two years will go on sale.

Summer Classes

2011-03-07T13:52:00.006+08:00

The school year is about to end. For Johann, school will close this week. I can't believe that it has been a year already. Sabi nga ni Vic, parang ang bilis lang nun tuition na binayaran ko.

Since, I don't want my kids watching TV all day, I am thinking of activities for them this summer. Here are some programs I am interested in. Check them out too.

Paref Rosefield's Summer Programs. Johann's school offers 12 sessions of Creative Play for 2 to 3 year old kids. I just might enroll Javi in that one. Johann would be enrolled in the Reading program. Anyway, each course is 12 sessions (2.5 hours per session). Pwede na ba for 5000 per course? I have no idea if that's expensive or not for 30hours? I wanted to get them into more physical activities but my choices are quite inaccessible.

Ballet Philippines. I found this at the backstage of Meralco Theater while we were on break. I was quite excited about the Toddler's Ballet class. Sayang, Bettina is too young. She can barely walk at this time. Hehehe. For less than 3000 per class, I think that is quite affordable.

Then, I recently received an email from San Miguel Culinary. They are holding cooking classes not just for kids but also for Mommies and Daddies. I frequent their Business Opportunity Series Workshops so I know that the recipes are really good.

I am still on the lookout for other summer programs. Do share, if you found something worth sharing.

Finally, An Appointment!

2011-03-06T23:28:00.006+08:00

For five days now, I've been on the look-out for an open slot for our US Visa Appointment. I called the US Embassy Call Center several times a day just to secure a schedule for our interview. I also made several attempts to get a slot through the online scheduling site. Needless to say, I was unsuccessful.

I was already getting nervous because I've heard of someone who waited for two weeks already and still hasn't gotten an appointment. With less than two months to get everything done, I was already thinking of the worst possible scenario. If we don't get anything suitable by the 2nd week of April, we may have to delay the trip. The travel agent I spoke to advised me to just be diligent in calling and checking out the website.

Then, at 3AM this morning, I decided to check out the website for slot availability. Lo and behold, I was able to secure a slot for me and my boys on the 22nd!

If all goes well, we plan to be in Vegas in time for the reunion and Pacquiao's fight. So, right now, I need to concentrate on gathering all my support documents for the appearance in two weeks. Nakaka-pressure!

Hay naku Lord, help me take it one day at time.

Thank You Lord... Again

2011-03-03T15:31:00.002+08:00

Just when I thought money is going to be tight in the next few months, God gives us more than enough to get by.

Thank you Lord for being so generous. That's why I really do not worry because I know you've got me covered.

Daddy's Bday at Cafe 1771

2011-02-25T10:26:00.006+08:00

For Vic's birthday lunch, we made our way to Ortigas. We've been wanting to try out the new Cafe 1771. As we made our way to our table, we saw Tito Ricky and bade him a quick hello.

Unlike the other 1771 restos, this one has brightly-colored interiors. I told Vic that it resembled Cafe Juanita but not in a quirky way. Though the place was filled with mismatched chairs and funky decor, it still looked organized and cozy. Like Juanita, they also had items on sale.

As expected, the waiters were very attentive. They took away the plates as soon as they're empty. Water glasses were always refilled.

Looking at the menu, I could tell that the selection is quite expensive for the "Ordinaryong Manggagawa." I guess they cater more to the executive diners. Lunch for Vic and me was already over 2000 pesos. Buti na lang we were celebrating something. Otherwise Taj Mahal for an ordinary weekday lunch.

As expected the food was very palatable. We had cheese-stuffed squash flowers for appetizers. We got Beef Stew with Guava Glaze and Pork with Orange Glaze (I don't quite remember what they're called). As you can see, the food was good enough for sharing. The waiter failed to mention that. Both meat dishes were quite rich so I wish we'd gotten something else to pair off the other. To end the meal, we had the famed Coffee Pie and the Valhrona Chocolate dessert. The desserts were also big enough for two people. Unfortunately, the earlier greeting didn't earn us any free dessert nor a 10% discount =)

They also have set menus for at least 6 people. The cheapest is P650 per head for a four-course meal. I'd say it is good for small gatherings. Still, it is on the expensive side.

I've heard good things about their breakfast selection. We just might come back for that.

To Commemorate EDSA

2011-02-25T10:05:00.005+08:00

Last night, Fr. Caluag con-celebrated a Mass for the 25th Anniversary of the People Power Revolution. It was one of those masses where there the congregation was made up mostly of choir members. Sad =(

When he, together with some Pnoy supporters, launched the "Pagbabago Movement" 25 weeks ago, I expected the 25th Anniversary mass to have the same number of followers. If that was any indication of how people remember EDSA, then people need frequent reminders.

In the words of Fr. C, "We first need to REMEMBER before we can CELEBRATE. We need to recall the blessing and the grace that God has given us that made the Revolution a success."

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Present during the mass was the very image of Our Lady of Fatima that was used during the Revolution. It was said to be carved in Portugal according to the specifications of Sister Lucia. Hearing the history behind the image of Our Lady gave me goosebumps.

The image is now under the care of the Dominican Brothers. There are plans of bringing the image all over the Philippines.

Waaaahhhh!

2011-02-22T18:51:00.003+08:00

Buti pa si Mama papunta na ng HK. Gusto kong sumama pero di pwede talaga . Gusto kong mag-shopping na parang andami kong pera. Hehehehe =P

Antayin ko na lang mag July. Meron kaming 5hour lay-over. Pwedeng pumuslit puntang Canton Road at mag dimsum.

Travel Tour Expo 2011

2011-02-21T08:07:00.005+08:00

I went to SMX on the first day. The objective was to scout for the most economical fare for our upcoming trips: Europe in July and US in May. Our plan was to decide over the weekend and purchase tickets on Sunday, if needed.

For Europe these were our options:
1. Avail of the Etihad-Eurail bundle for $1100. This offer was our priority because Etihad gave us the cheapest round-trip fare online. In addition to that, the Eurail pass will cover our transpo for our side-trips. The only problem was the people didn't know if the promo covers our travel dates.

2. Cathay Pacific flights to EU for $900. We need to book for this flight on the last day of the Expo.

For the US trip, the cheapest I could get was also USD1000+. I heard of the PAL and AA tie-up for East-Coast or Midwest destinations. Unfortunately, the promotion is only valid for connecting flights. Since we plan to spend a few days in the West before moving to another state, di pwede.

For Asian Destinations, there were lots of affordable offers. Most of what I saw were land-arrangement packages only. Very few offered packages with round-trip airline tickets. Buti na lang, since I have no budget for those.

Yesterday, after my sister's birthday lunch, I asked Vic to drop me off at SMX. I met up with my travel companions so we can decide and purchase tickets. After quickly comparing the rates, we ended up getting the Cathay flight. Bayad na lang kulang. We have a week to complete the payment.

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I'd like to share with you some tips to make your trip to the next TTE more convenient:

1. It is really good to go events like the TTE if you already have a date and destination in mind. It keeps in you in track. There are just too many temptations.

2. Do your research prior to the event. This will give you an idea if you are better off buying online or through an agent or during the fare.

3. Come in groups. The lines at the major agencies and airlines are quite long so it is best to split up by area. It took me 30 minutes just to get a quotation for my upcoming trips.

4. If you are travelling in groups of 10 or more, it's best to notify the agent to avail of group discounts.

5. Be flexible with your travel dates. The chances of getting your preferred travel date are slim knowing that promo seats are limited per flight.

Are We Ready?

2011-02-09T01:24:00.003+08:00

Johann received a toddler bed for Christmas. Vic hasn't assembled it yet. We still have to get Johann a mattress for the bed.

He is turning 4 this June and I am wondering if it is time to make him sleep in his own room.

At present, all kids stay in the master bedroom. This way, we can spend time with the kids, without the yayas and we can save up on electricity because only 1 A/C will be running at night.

We have an extra mattress on the floor, initially intended to break the fall of kids from the big bed. Javi and I sleep on the big bed. Vic and Johann use the extra mattress because the A/C cools that part of the room better than the big bed. Bettina sleeps in the crib but co-sleeps with me when she wakes up at night.

Moving Johann to the other room means that Javi has to stay there, too. Otherwise, he won't budge. Since they're still not too comfortable with the new yayas, they still want to spend more time with us. They are extra clingy also.

Hay, when should kids sleep in their own rooms? I never got my own room till I was old enough to have a boyfriend. So, I wouldn't really know.

Hehehe. Looks like it is going to be difficult. We still haven't graduated from toilet training.

CityLink

2011-02-07T17:05:00.003+08:00

I just found out yesterday that CityLink shuttles to all Megaworld properties. Depending on the traffic, pick up is every 30 minutes.

I've been wanting to explore Resorts World but I do not want to drive all the way to Pasay just to kill time. So, I guess, I can just park at Eastwood then take the shuttle to Resorts World. Mga trip nga naman. Hehehe.

Bettina Update - 9 Months

2011-02-03T13:51:00.003+08:00

Yesterday, Bettina graduated from the rear-facing infant seat to front-facing car seat. She was comfortable enough in Kuya Johann's seat, though I'd like to her to exchange seats with Kuya Javi. She was quite pleased by what she saw in the side windows.

This past week, she has been having trouble breathing. She caught the bug that left her two kuyas, me and Daddy sleepless for several nights. We recently discovered that she has atopic dermatitis like me. Her face and limbs have rashes caused her additional discomfort.

Despite her condition, she remains to be a happy baby. Still very cheerful even if her eyes are getting heavy from all the allergy and cold meds.

In a few months' time, we'll be celebrating her 1st birthday. I'm still going to use the ballerina theme, as planned. I'm still picking the brains of my party planner on how we can involve the boys.

2011 Events

2011-02-03T13:36:00.004+08:00

Here are several events I'd like to visit.

I hope to score some good deals in there. Kaya lang it will conflict with ACS' planning weekend. Then, for my other hobby (aside from singing, traveling and shopping =D),

Unfortunately, their all going to be held in SMX. Mej kalayuan from my side of the boondocks.

We're Almost Set!

2011-01-31T19:06:00.006+08:00

Over rehearsal last weekend, I cornered those who said they'll come to Mimi's wedding. Sorry na lang, the planner in me strikes again. With just five months away, we have to figure out our itinerary and pocket money, at the very least. Sayang naman kasi, promo fares are coming out already.

We met over dinner and decided that we will leave on the 3rd week of July, preferably on a weekday so it is cheaper. This way, they can already file their vacation leaves. We've decided to ask our respective agents for quotes for our supposed itinerary. We'll most likely get our visas from The Netherlands since it will easier due to the DH situation in France, Italy or Spain.

Kinikilig na kami sa excitement. Anda na lang =P

I Hate to Say Goodbye

2011-01-28T18:35:00.002+08:00

Last December, I purchased this as an early Christmas present. I asked Vic's Tita to bring it home for me.

I bought it specifically for our trip since I knew I'd need a bag that will keep my hands free to handle the boys. I wanted to get a Prada Gauffre but my eyes are set on Mimi's wedding. Si pesteng EQ talaga.

On the first day, I noticed that the dye rubbed off on my cream sweater. On the next day, I noticed that the color faded on the creases of the bag. It is such a disappointment. Kainez! The leather is so soft and smooth like what they use on the Reva flats. Sayang talaga.

I've been exchanging emails with TB's customer service. They suggested that I send it back to them. They will provide me with shipping labels so I won't have to pay for shipping charges. I don't want to return it because the color and leather are really nice. I'd rather have it replaced but they're no longer producing it. They'll just credit back the amount to the card. I don't want to let go pero unfair to me who paid a hefty price for it. On a more positive note, at least I'll have moolah for my next TB purchase.

Palawan - Day 3

2011-01-26T18:02:00.004+08:00

We didn't do much on this last day. We only had a few hours in the morning before heading to the airport.

If you are in Palawan, the best items to bring home, aside from pearls, are the fish and the cashews. These we got from the wet market.

As soon as we arrived in the market, a man approached my mother to offer his services as kargador and packer. He followed us around while we bought fish and other pasalubong items. My mother bought the fish as I don't know how to choose the right one. I went off to get dried fish and roasted cashews. When we finished, he weighed all the items for packaging.

We had two options, an ordinary box or a Styrofoam box. For 12 kilos of fish, a styro box with ice will set us back more or less, P500. For the ordinary box, it cost us half as much as the styro. The Packer assured us that the fish will arrive fresh because of the salt, even if there is no ice.

It was packed nice and tight.

After the wet market experience, we made our way to the Tiangge. This was the place we visited on the first night while every one was at the wedding rehearsal. It had lots of souvenir items like food, Palawan shirts, various pearls and other accessories. If you really want to buy perfect pearls or South Sea Pearls (the deep sea pearls that aren't cultured), this is the place to go. You could haggle as much as you'd like. I was able to ask for P2000 discount until I found out that it is cheaper next door. I later found out that it doesn't affect the price whether you are just getting the pearls or the pearls set into jewelry already.

Beware because tricycle drivers will lure tourists to the air-conditioned building. It seems that they'll be given a commission for every sale in that establishment. There's really nothing wrong with that except that it is cheaper on the side, where the air is fresh and there are no security guards. Besides, the nearby stalls also house nice handicrafts made of wood.

Once again, we rode the tricycle back to the hotel.

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The Puerto Princesa Airport is located near the residential area. Though it is considered as an international airport, most of the facilities are similar to most domestic airports.

The arrival area has only one baggage conveyor. So, when flights arrive at the same time, it could get crowded and chaotic. The rest room is kept clean and toilet paper is provided. However, the shiny black tiles are too clean to reflect what's happening inside the cubicle. It's enough if you could hear it. I don't need to see it.

The departure area opens only at certain times. Passengers would have to fall in line outside, in the sun, until the door opens. Once it opens, checking in is a breeze.

What lacks in the airport is a decent place to get food. There are food and souvenir stalls inside the pre-departure area, but the selection is limited to drinks and sandwiches. There are several small restaurants outside the terminal but they are so small that they always don't have what you'd like to order. Since our flight was delayed, I was so tempted to go back to Ka Inato for a late lunch.

What's nice about the place is the massage corner where you can relax while you wait for your flight. If your flight gets delayed for more than an hour, you'd have a hard time amusing yourself. Fortunately, the city is just a few minutes away.

Palawan - Day 2

2011-01-25T09:18:00.007+08:00

On the day of the wedding, our morning was free to go around the city. We made our way to Baker's Hill for their hopia and other baked goodies. We stayed longer than anticipated because the shoppingeras were distracted by the the pearl vendors. Cultured fresh water pearl jewelry sets were being sold for as low as P250. Earrings could go as low as P20. They haven't been to the Tiangge yet so imagine their excitement upon seeing everything so cheap.

Afterwards, we drove up to see the Mitra ranch to enjoy this view.

Not so far away is the crocodile farm where you can have your picture taken with a croc for P30.

The short guided tour (P40) is very informative for kids and adults. We got to see tanks of baby and adult crocodiles. Guests may also go around the park and check out the other animals. The short tour is just half-an-hour long.

They had on display the biggest crocodile captured in the Philippines. It was 17 feet long. This croc made the news for attacking a local fisherman. It died a few days later due to stress. I dunno how they figured out that the croc was stressed out.

Apparently, croc leather is harvested from baby crocs only. So the leather pictured above has no market value. The market prefers the quality of salt water croc leather than the fresh water variant. Once the leather is harvested, what's left is made into croc meat sisig. Poor creatures.

Lunch was at Ka Inato. No, we didn't have croc sisig. We went there for their famous chicken. It wasn't like Inasal, like I expected. It is a sweet kind of barbequed chicken with a reddish-yellow tint. For less than P100, we got a plate of rice, a whole chicken leg or breast, atsara and a slice of watermelon. It was the best meal I had in Palawan, even better than Ka Lui's.

After lunch, we made our way back to the hotel to prepare for the wedding. The morning was hot and humid. It was the perfect beach weather, not really ideal for an afternoon wedding.

Palawan - Day 1

2011-01-25T08:49:00.003+08:00

Vic booked our Underground River Cruise on the first day. Upon arriving, the van we hired picked us up at the airport. Before dropping us off at our hotel to check-in, we secured our permit to go to the underground river. The city government limits visitors to 600 per day.

From the city, it took us about an hour and a half to reach the dock. From there, we had lunch, buffet style for P200 each. In a place where you can get a decent meal for P80, that is quite expensive already. Since the Underground River is a popular tourist destination, be sure to eat before a big group arrives.

To reach the cave, you'd have to go on a 15-minute boat ride. Upon reaching the other side, the guide will bring you to the dock near the cave entrance. We were given life vests and hard hats. The water could go as deep as 8 meters on regular days. The hats were there just in case we bump our heads into rock formations. Besides, not everything that drips from the ceiling is mountain water... it could be bat poop.

Like the gondolier, the boatman also served as the tour guide. He pointed out different formations and locations inside the cave. I was particularly amazed by the rock formation that resembled the face of Jesus.

Since it was totally dark inside, the passenger seated in front of the boat has to hold up the light.

After 45 mins, we made our way back to where we entered. Going through the other end of the tunnel required a special permit.

Before alighting, our picture was taken for the souvenir photo (P150).

A Wedding in Palawan

2011-01-24T08:23:00.007+08:00

A distant cousin got married to a Palawan local last weekend. Most of my relatives were there to witness the ceremony courtesy of a wealthy (but miserly) uncle. The rites were held at the Immaculate Conception Cathedral in Puerto Princesa. The reception followed HOURS later at the Asturias Hotel.

Needless to say, it was nice to be in the company of people who I haven't spent time with for years. Cousins caught up with the latest gossip. Newly-widowed Titas joined in the modernized bouquet toss. It would have been nicer if changes in plans were communicated to us WAY in advance. Buti na lang, we were flexible enough to adapt to the changes. I could just imagine the Titas complaining and whining non-stop.

The wedding coordinator seemed non-existent. He was not around when you need him. He was there when you didn't need him. The accommodations were acceptable though we had problems coordinating with the front desk personnel. There was inadequate preparation for the transportation and lodging for the out-of-town guests. The venue styling was lovely. The food was good. The open bar was a hit. The music had its good and bad moments. The sound system operator needs to be trained. Most of the suppliers seemed so unprofessional. Maybe, their standards are just not up to par with what I am used to. There were just so many "Hay naku!" moments.

It is a good thing that Vic made other travel arrangements because we couldn't rely on the arrangements made for us.

Fun Times with Uncle S

2011-01-19T21:57:00.004+08:00

I woke up to the most shocking news. One of my husband's dear distant relatives passed away due to low blood sugar. He died in the ambulance on his way to the hospital. When I broke the news to my mother, she said, "Wala nga namang namamatay sa high blood sugar."

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My memories of the U.S. will not be complete without him. He was the person who took Vic and me to Palm Springs, toured us around the parks and tourist attractions, who gambled in the nearby Morongo Casino while we shop in Cabazon. Uncle S always had the juiciest chismis about Pinoy celebrities in Hollywood, specially those who fled Manila to keep a low profile.

He'd always be the assigned chauffeur of the LA stop. It's not because he lives in Hollywood. It's because he is the only one who has the luxury to take time off work and because he is the only privileged enough to have the driving skills. He never failed to bring us around, even if we only gave them a 12-hour notice. He never comments if we've shopped too much or if he waited too long.

I was always amazed by his simplicity. He drove the same car for more than 20 years even if he can afford to replace it biennially. I am equally amazed by his knack for holding on to his possessions for years. Just look inside his car =)

He is one generous, understanding, patient, accommodating and forgiving soul. Los Angeles will never be the same without him. It's so unfortunate that my children never got to meet him.

May you rest in peace Uncle S.

Six Years!

2011-01-19T00:48:00.000+08:00

Last Friday, Vic and I celebrated our 6 years of partnership by drowning ourselves in cheese, foie gras and desserts. Sarap! Though my stomach is still recovering from all that dairy, I quite thankful that God has blessed our relationship with so many things.

6 years and 3 kids later, we're still the same old couple who enjoy food and music. Not only are we partners in parenting, we're also great in shopping =P

I thank God for giving me someone who I can laugh and cry with, share my burden with (chiz!), who can (almost always) read my mind, who can finish my sentences, who understands my mood swings, who has an endless supply of moral support and who lets me be what I want to be.

To my favorite travel buddy, Happy 6th wedding anniversary to us!

During the Holiday Break Part 2

2011-01-18T15:24:00.007+08:00

Before the year ended, our family flew to one of my favorite shopping destinations. After making the first shopping stop at Toys R Us, the appeal of the city lost its luster to the kids. They were once again invigorated when we made our way to...

where Johann and Javi met their latest favorites...

Though we didn't get to see any of Disney Cars' characters in Disneyland, we found them at the Venetian in Macau...

The trip was extra special, specifically to Javi, because he got to ride almost all forms of transportation (bus, boat, plane and train) for the first time. Unfortunately, he was asleep when we rode the train back to the city.

It was a good thing that Johann was awake to remember the ride.

The kids witnessed the dragon dance along Canton road...

listened to the bagpipers in the airport...

and had their picture taken with one of our known lady lawmakers...

I am more particularly proud of my eldest because he has proven to be quite a young traveler. He wanted to show us that he is THE big brother by helping Daddy and Mama drag the lightweight luggage to the bus and by pushing Javi's stroller in the park.

It was a pain sometimes, when he refused to ride the stroller and insisted on being carried from Ocean terminal to the hotel room. We are mighty glad that we had just the right gadget to amuse them.

When it was time to bid 2010 goodbye, the boys including Vic were already asleep. I ended up watching the fireworks on TV while packing our stuff.

I am quite happy with this trip. Vic and I managed without the yayas again. The kids were happy that they were occasionally let loose. I had enough time to shop and I got what I planned on getting. We didn't overspend and still had money to put in our savings. I would've been happier if we had Bettina with us. But that is just not doable. Nevertheless, the year started off great for us. I wish it was the same with you. Though this greeting is several weeks behind, I wish everyone a happy and prosperous 2011!